If you’ve endured a recent attack, or even a hostile email with a red exclaimation point next to it letting your know something is “an emergency” and your not reacting fast enough, I’ve written this little ditty for you. Cue music. #1. Don’t Deny #2. Don’t Reply #3. Breathe. Get space. Seriously, if you are reacting to any attack, it is very likely you haven’t consulted yourself about this situation. You’ve morphed into their nightmare. Give yourself space to find the wisdom and words you will be proud of yourself for speaking, ya know? What we will do instead: We will look,…